Gembean841
Arachnopeon
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- May 9, 2021
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Hello, my name's Gem just wanted to say a quick hello as I'm new here and finding my way around still.
Welcome Gem!!Hello, my name's Gem just wanted to say a quick hello as I'm new here and finding my way around still.
Welcome! I used to have a fear of larger spiders too, but I found that the more I observed them, the more they grew on me! Royal and bold jumpers are also a favorite of mine.Hi guys! I'm obviously new here to the forums, but also new in a special kind of way in that I am in the process of recovering from lifelong arachnophobia. Having a crippling fear of spiders, while also harbouring a cautious long distance fascination with them has been extremely frustrating and it's something I've been set on remedying.
A couple years ago these dueling emotions came to a head when I discovered Maratus volans on reddit and fell utterly in love with the males and their risky dances of seduction.
From there I started spotting the tiny iridescent Venusta Orchard Spiders in various gardens and falling further in love. Also finding adoration from a distance in the small super fuzzy regal jumping spiders. I once kept a female black widow I found after chopping down a tree in front of my house several autumns ago, because I feared it would come inside during winter and my cats would eat her. I named her Scarlet Johansson.
When it comes to other spiders like wolves, huntsmen, a majority of tarantulas, and some orbweavers, however, I seize with terror and it feels like an iron hand squeezing and shaking the top of my spine.
This year I've started watching a few YouTube channels (Tarantula Kat, Exotics Lair, and The Dark Den) and its helping a bit more. Hopefully this forum can aid me further, I found it while seeking out some velvet worms, hah.
Anyway, some other things about me: I'm a latina from The United States, and I enjoy reading (horror, history, weird stuff), sketching, strategical and open world/immersive games, ornithology and anthropology (what I went to uni for), herpetology, entomology, gemstone cutting, and collecting/restoring small viking/medieval/renaissance antiquities.
Sorry for the long winded introduction!
Welcome! You are in good company; there are many members who became fascinated by spiders during their recovery from arachnophobia.Hi guys! I'm obviously new here to the forums, but also new in a special kind of way in that I am in the process of recovering from lifelong arachnophobia. Having a crippling fear of spiders, while also harbouring a cautious long distance fascination with them has been extremely frustrating and it's something I've been set on remedying.