sounds like ya rosea was WC ... n definitely layin an egg sack ... listen to the advice u been given ... dont get sooo "het up" n u will b fine .. incubating a sack isnt that hard .....i did it and have since sold the babies(slings) no probs ... chill out... u gonna b a spidermom soon if u chill n calm down ... n layin off the caps wud b a gud thing ...