This happen to you before???
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While I'm sure it makes people feel great to claim they'd ride in on a white horse and punch the guy in the face (in my experience no one who says that would actually do it), that wouldn't actually accomplish anything but getting yourselves in legal trouble. Furthermore if this guy is on record as being mentally disabled, any of you doing a THING to him would make him look like a victim.
I don't know, this thread is very strange - but if this situation is real, the OP needs to be talking to the cops/various resources for abused women/not an arachnid hobbyist forum. They can help her. We of the internet cannot.
I don't know, this thread is very strange - but if this situation is real, the OP needs to be talking to the cops/various resources for abused women/not an arachnid hobbyist forum. They can help her. We of the internet cannot.
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ADHD hardly classifies as "mentally disabled". Also, the OP described him as "autist". Yeah, right... Asperger at most. I'm guessing we are talking about a sociopath who was forced to go to a doctor by court. And suddenly... HE HAD ADHD!
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Good post and well said.... This is a little strange...
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Yeah, this is a bit strange.....but maybe the OP isn't comfortable reaching out to anyone else. In any case, Mushroom Spore makes a good point about the whole Damsel In Distress mentality of alot of people. Alot of people will say it, but few will act. And these types of people that are doing the abusing will play victim if violently confronted, and will attempt to frustrate you in hopes you'll do something stupid. I've been asked on a few occasions to help a friend remove some trouble, but rarely did it resort to violence....having 5 guys who all have been around a few dozen fairly rough blocks WILL lessen the violent streak in any @-hole wife-beater. LOL
On the point that the internet can't help.....I seem to remember a news story about some troubled kid who was torturing animals, posted something on YouTube, and within hours the internet community had enough information to call the local authorities and have him arrested. Anything is possible. Even getting the nice young men in those shiny white coats to come out to get this clown with a butterfly net.
On the point that the internet can't help.....I seem to remember a news story about some troubled kid who was torturing animals, posted something on YouTube, and within hours the internet community had enough information to call the local authorities and have him arrested. Anything is possible. Even getting the nice young men in those shiny white coats to come out to get this clown with a butterfly net.
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Don't underestimate the OP. You'ed be impressed what a small person with a couple of drink spikers, some sharp objects and a good enough imagination can do.
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Oh yeah......no underestimations here. Personally, I prefer to see a good snap kick in the sack. That will drop ANY guy no matter how big they are!!! But I like your idea much better, arachneman!! ;P OBT in the bed, anyone???
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Yup with a couple of p.regalis thrown in, just in case he runs.
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Anyone else notice that the OP hasn't commented since last evening even though her activity shows she was last around at about 6PM today?
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stalker...
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You're just jealous that it isn't you I'm stalking. :}.
Nah, I just noticed that she hadn't been around and was concerned. Had her activity not shown anything since she posted this thread, I would seriously consider calling her local authorities and making a report as lowlife cowards like the one she's described are capable of anything.
I've witnessed and felt first-hand how bad these situations can get.
Nah, I just noticed that she hadn't been around and was concerned. Had her activity not shown anything since she posted this thread, I would seriously consider calling her local authorities and making a report as lowlife cowards like the one she's described are capable of anything.
I've witnessed and felt first-hand how bad these situations can get.
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First, the problem with modern society is most people dont step in and help. I've seen this kind of situation a lot. This could be here way of asking for it. The problem is a buch of people from the US phoning in complaints that they cant prove is useless.
MushroomSpore- Notice I asked who had the bail money? The way to solve this is legally. How ever, I think if someone witness something like that they have a moral duty to step in. Thats how I met the mother of my child. But yes, all of us getting on a plane would only land us in jail.
MushroomSpore- Notice I asked who had the bail money? The way to solve this is legally. How ever, I think if someone witness something like that they have a moral duty to step in. Thats how I met the mother of my child. But yes, all of us getting on a plane would only land us in jail.
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I was an abused wife at 19. Get out, NOW. It only escalates. Are there shelters for battered women out there? Check the internet, make some calls, but GET SOME HELP. No woman deserves to be hit, for any reason. You might have to give up your pets and possibly your home, but your life is worth it.
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I've done it before and would happily do it again! And he has a learning disability, seems he's physically capable if he can beat his g/f.
While I understand the good intentions and wisdom behind what you're saying.. I am sure there are several people on these boards who would be more than happy to step up to an abusive spouse.
When I was about 4 years old I watched my father beat the hell out of and threaten to kill my mother infront of the Christmas Tree..
As an adult: Homey don't play that. If I see a guy smacking around his girlfriend in public, I consider it grounds for interference and worth risking going to jail. Most police officers are extremely leniant in those kinds of situations unless you seriously hurt the other person and assuming it wasn't premeditated.
In my State it is legal to stop someone from hurting someone else. And I have done it so I know how it works from both sides. Ussually these kind of people wont do it in public, but have had to knock on the neighbors door before and tell him what was about to happen. After I got my degree in LE and became a prison guard it became a lot easier.