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Arachnosquire
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You may soon find yourself with an incurable case of bug addiction.
Welcome!
Welcome!
Thank youWait until the fangs turn black. If they are still red or brown, they are soft and are more likely to break.
These two threads contain helpful information:
If you have any other questions, feel free to start a thread in Tarantula Questions and Discussions.
There is a sub-forum for just that sort of thing. people would probably be interested in your pictures.Hello.
I'm Matt.
I'm not a hobbyist. I live in Southern Africa and I spend much of my free time scratching around in the bush.
I have been photographing arachnids for a few years in Southern Africa. I would like to know whether it would be okay to open a thread with some of my photos.
I would add them to the existing photo thread but I have a few too many for that, I think.
I have been sitting on my photos and I wonder if anyone would appreciate seeing some of our scorpions and spiders in their natural environments.
Thanks
Maybe she'll come around, but if not, you can purchase the Classifieds Access upgrade for $5. Be sure to set up a review page for yourself and read the terms before posting.Well when I received them, my wife lost it. I guess her grief runs way deeper than I thought. She blames herself for the fire. I have to sell my slings as she isn't ready to start over. I know now I should have talked to her first, but I was hoping to surprise her. She has been into reptiles and arachnids much longer than me. I guess I don't post here enough to have the privilege to add to the classifieds. Does anyone have suggestions on where I may be able to sell my slings? I'm in Sacramento/Folsom area, and would prefer to not have to ship. Really bummed as I have been looking for a Pulchra for many months. :-(
So sorry to hear about this, but if the sight of two new tarantula slings set your wife off so badly-- she should be in grief counseling. There are obviously some things she hasn't been able to work through and it won't just make her ready to get back into a hobby she obviously loved (which is therapeutic all on it's own really) but it will help her with this clearly traumatizing life-experience.Hello all. I need some help. I've never really used this forum before. I have had t's for about 9yrs'. I had a beautiful L. parybana female that was probably 8" in size, a G. Pulchra, a B. Smithi and a B. Boehmei. Long story short, we had a house fire back in October. All of my critters, as well as our bearded dragon, ball python and cornsnake of 9yrs perished in the fire. I was finally ready to restart my collection of pets and purchased a G. pulchra and a Mexican redknee, both slings, from a reputable online site. Well when I received them, my wife lost it. I guess her grief runs way deeper than I thought. She blames herself for the fire. I have to sell my slings as she isn't ready to start over. I know now I should have talked to her first, but I was hoping to surprise her. She has been into reptiles and arachnids much longer than me. I guess I don't post here enough to have the privilege to add to the classifieds. Does anyone have suggestions on where I may be able to sell my slings? I'm in Sacramento/Folsom area, and would prefer to not have to ship. Really bummed as I have been looking for a Pulchra for many months. :-(
Thanks for the tip. She is part of a grief counseling group online. I guess she had just been doing a good job hiding the extent of the guilt. The only reason I moved forward is that she said she would be happy to pay for my t's when I found some, though I had no intent of letting her do that. It was an accident, and I feel terrible that she is so guilt ridden. I appreciate your words.So sorry to hear about this, but if the sight of two new tarantula slings set your wife off so badly-- she should be in grief counseling. There are obviously some things she hasn't been able to work through and it won't just make her ready to get back into a hobby she obviously loved (which is therapeutic all on it's own really) but it will help her with this clearly traumatizing life-experience.
I know some people can get really defensive when therapy is brought up, but you should still talk to her about it. It might also help to talk to her yourself. If you didn't know that new slings would set her off, then what else could she be keeping to herself? Just remember to be as understanding and gentle as you can. And if she's still not ready, that's okay. October was less than six months ago. All wounds need time to heal, and psychological ones take the longest.
Good luck, and as @Ungoliant said you can upgrade to a classifieds user, but you can also become an active member to post to classifieds for free. You still need to make yourself a review page and familiarize yourself with the terms either way.
Welcome! Grammostola pulchra is an excellent first tarantula. (The only downside is that they can be expensive and/or hard to find.)I'm Sawyer. I don't currently have any Ts but I've been obsessed with inverts for years and I'm currently in the process of securing a G. pulchra. I've been lurking here long enough I figured I should make an account.
Most experienced keepers here do not recommend handling.My newbie question is do any experienced T handlers have a suggested regimen of promoting from beginner to intermediate to advanced?
Most experienced keepers here do not recommend handling.
Unlike other pets, tarantulas do not enjoy being handled. At best, they may tolerate being handled. However, their temperament can change over time, and being wild animals, their behavior can be unpredictable.
Most of us recommend not handling due to the potential for injury to your tarantula. A tarantula -- especially a bulky terrestrial species -- can die from a ruptured abdomen if it falls even a short distance, particularly onto a hard surface. Moreover, if your tarantula bit you, you might reflexively fling it to its death.
If you decide to handle anyway, it is best to limit the frequency of handling and never to do so more than a few inches above a soft surface.
If you have any other questions, feel free to start a new thread on Tarantula Questions & Discussions or Tarantula Chat.