No you are trying to mislead what I'm saying. You should care enough not to get bit. But the process for deciding "if you are ready" is not as complicated as many make it be-- hence all of the threads that are started asking this very question.
You deffinitely should not "suck it up and stop being a baby" and delve into owning the species. If you have owned spiders, and understand and accept that if you do receive a bite, what the consequences are, then you can make the decision and own or not own one. When it comes down to it, you will recover, but of course you do not ever want to convince somebody to own such a species by using the rhetoric "suck it up, your weak, dont be a p**********, just do it" --- that is juvenile... (and I should say, anyone trying to use such tactics clearly are not "ready"
You deffinitely should not "suck it up and stop being a baby" and delve into owning the species. If you have owned spiders, and understand and accept that if you do receive a bite, what the consequences are, then you can make the decision and own or not own one. When it comes down to it, you will recover, but of course you do not ever want to convince somebody to own such a species by using the rhetoric "suck it up, your weak, dont be a p**********, just do it" --- that is juvenile... (and I should say, anyone trying to use such tactics clearly are not "ready"