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Again- your opinion on condescending is subjective- non-issue for me. If you think I'm being condescending in my previous responses here you are sensitive- nothing wrong with that.listen pal. ur tone is condescending. the things u write like " oh get a dog instead", like u understand that this is condencesing and ur making it seem like i just want this animal for its aesthetics. i know u have the best intentions in mind for the animal and so do i. as much as i want to get a larger tarantula as my first (i wanted to get the purple pink toe) i am unable to due to my family being absolutely terrified of larger breeds. in the end, all you could have literally wrote to me was this, "i dont reccomend starting off with dwarfs at all in my experience, try getting the golden knee instead. they're hardy, docile and great for first time owners." see how simple that was? i would've taken that in stride. in the end ur post isnt reportable lol, its really not that deep. all im saying is i dont need someone coming for my throat when all i asked was a simple question. get some humanity and empathy dude. it'll do u wonders.
And you have misunderstood what I wrote when I typed get dog. I didn't know if you were one of the new people who is looking to cuddle and pet their new animal OR NOT. Hence my us of the word IF. Re-read it....IF means exactly that, maybe you are or maybe you aren't. As you took that the wrong way, read more carefully what is written to you. Don't assume I thought you were X, because I didn't. I mentioned it because MANY people looking for a docile T ARE like that. SO it was a head's up in the even you are like that. But considering you seem not to be, then there's no reason to mention it hah.
See abovecondescending tone and acting like im just a child who wants a pretty animal.
Exactly- everything else you wrote is true as well.. It seems like you could have just searched beginner species or cyriocosmus elegans in the search function and gotten your answers there, but instead you felt the need to make your own thread here and then get really mad at the responses.
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