Nothing against the men on this site, but in my everyday life, definitely more boys are freaked out by my Ts than girls. No joke! It's so funny since most guys try to act all tough then act like little sissies when they see or hear about my spiders. xD
You sound like my ideal date. =D
I dunno about the ratio though... most of my friends who are female are pretty freaked out about Ts, meanwhile, most of my guy friends are 'no thanks'. They just want nothing to do with them. I have yet to put them to the test in person, but when I talk about it, they just dismiss it.