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warm water...you're still applying heat??I put them in the ICU, deli cup with warm water.
warm water...you're still applying heat??I put them in the ICU, deli cup with warm water.
I read warm water when I googled tarantula ICU.warm water...you're still applying heat??
you rarely pay attention to them? Waaw i dont think that a lot of people here in this forum would like to hear that :s poor T's...lol I don't visit the forums often and I rarely pay attention to the tarantulas because they never come out
the way this thread has gone, it sounds like this is one of the rare cases where the T's were actually better off that way.you rarely pay attention to them? Waaw i dont think that a lot of people here in this forum would like to hear that :s poor T's...
indeed i agreethe way this thread has gone, it sounds like this is one of the rare cases where the T's were actually better off that way.
I agree here. People do things when panicky and I can't blame him.Jesus, everyone get off this guy's back already. He made a silly mistake (happens to everyone at times) and is doing his best to correct it and save the spiders he obviously cares a lot about.
OP, I hope things turned out fine...
If they were still alive he'd probably still be inquiring for advice. Hopefully this is a learning experience, albeit it an unfortunate one, but still a learning experience nonetheless.I agree here. People do things when panicky and I can't blame him.
I hope they turn out alright.
Or he's discouraged from posting here asking for advice again. If not, and they have passed, then I hope they do learn from the mistakes and I sincerely hope it doesn't deter them from the hobby. It's a quick and sudden (and sucky) life lesson.If they were still alive he'd probably still be inquiring for advice. Hopefully this is a learning experience, albeit it an unfortunate one, but still a learning experience nonetheless.
Exactly. Why the hell would he come back and keep posting in this thread? He asked for advice to help remedy a mistake and pretty much got a whole page of browbeating about what a bad keeper he is. Glad to know all these eager critics have always known everything about tarantulas and have never made a mistake.Or he's discouraged from posting here asking for advice again.
Jesus, maybe you should can the misguided heroism and direct your sympathy towards the spiders, the real victims in this situation.Jesus, everyone get off this guy's back already. He made a silly mistake (happens to everyone at times) and is doing his best to correct it and save the spiders he obviously cares a lot about.
Perhaps the real reason they haven't returned to post is because the spiders may not have survived this easily preventable ordeal. And no, I haven't cooked any arachnids in the almost 30 years I've kept them, nor given them hot showers.Exactly. Why the hell would he come back and keep posting in this thread? He asked for advice to help remedy a mistake and pretty much got a whole page of browbeating about what a bad keeper he is. Glad to know all these eager critics have always known everything about tarantulas and have never made a mistake.
no im not mad because he made a mistake. Im mad because he said 'i rarely pay attention to them'!!!Jesus, everyone get off this guy's back already. He made a silly mistake (happens to everyone at times) and is doing his best to correct it and save the spiders he obviously cares a lot about.
OP, I hope things turned out fine...
I would call it compassion more than misguided heroism, and I do care about the spiders which is why I want to talk with their keeper in a constructive manner. There are ways to tell someone that they messed up (in a big way) and suggest changes for the health of the spiders without being cruel to someone who is probably already feeling horrible about what happened. If this person really was driven away from AB by this experience, do you think that's good for his spiders (any that he may still be keeping or may buy) in the long run? The OP has expensive T cages, is a member of a tarantula nerd forum, and sounded very upset by what was happening... I think it's fair to assume that on some non-superficial level he cares about tarantulas and wants to take care of them properly. Obviously this guy had some issues with tarantula care/knowledge, but we certainly encounter waaay worse here all the time and he does not strike me as some kind of tarantula-abusing monster. I sincerely believe it is better for the hobby to approach people like him with compassion even when they make bad mistakes (which I very much hope did not cause the deaths of his spiders), unless they are an egregious repeat offender.Jesus, maybe you should can the misguided heroism and direct your sympathy towards the spiders, the real victims
Ask some of these people with 500+ tarantulas how often they pay attention to each of their individual spiders. Tarantulas don't really need a lot of human attention, and I think that's something a lot of people actually find to be a positive thing.no im not mad because he made a mistake. Im mad because he said 'i rarely pay attention to them'!!!
. Thats true buy it sound so cruel. Like he dont care at all.I would call it compassion more than misguided heroism, and I do care about the spiders which is why I want to talk with their keeper in a constructive manner. There are ways to tell someone that they messed up (in a big way) and suggest changes for the health of the spiders without being cruel to someone who is probably already feeling horrible about what happened. If this person really was driven away from AB by this experience, do you think that's good for his spiders (any that he may still be keeping or may buy) in the long run? The OP has expensive T cages, is a member of a tarantula nerd forum, and sounded very upset by what was happening... I think it's fair to assume that on some non-superficial level he cares about tarantulas and wants to take care of them properly. Obviously this guy had some issues with tarantula care/knowledge, but we certainly encounter waaay worse here all the time and he does not strike me as some kind of tarantula-abusing monster. I sincerely believe it is better for the hobby to approach people like him with compassion even when they make bad mistakes (which I very much hope did not cause the deaths of his spiders), unless they are an egregious repeat offender.
Ask some of these people with 500+ tarantulas how often they pay attention to each of their individual spiders. Tarantulas don't really need a lot of human attention, and I think that's something a lot of people actually find to be a positive thing.
Therein lies the root problem of internet forums. Emotional context is so tough to accurately extrude. I recently jumped on someone for using a term, even though it was entirely correct to use. Heh, but to me, it sounded so cruel.. Thats true buy it sound so cruel. Like he dont care at all.
yes thats true thoughTherein lies the root problem of internet forums. Emotional context is so tough to accurately extrude. I recently jumped on someone for using a term, even though it was entirely correct to use. Heh, but to me, it sounded so cruel.