I was looking at getting my husband a red trapdoor spider for Christmas. I have searched around and have not found much about care, or how venomous they are to humans. I was wondering if someone could give me a link to a good care sheet, or some advice regarding their care and venom potency. My other concern was that the one I looked at, was pretty skinny, and looked like she hadn't been eating. I could see that the pet store workers had torn up one of the burrows, when she showed it to me. If we were to bring her home, will she have trouble adjusting and eating, after that much stress? Any advice would be great, and thank you in advance.