I think you've made an great suggestion to try using gelatin.The gelatin is similar to what water crystals are made of, and poses no danger to the tarantula. The flakes already have binders in them anyway. I've fed gel foods to snails, shrimps and other invertebrates and they thrived on them.
I'm not busting chops, just pointing this out in case someone tries making this out of water crystals: gelatin and "water crystals" are not the same thing at all. Gelatin is food safe and "water crystals" are not.
"Water crystals" are polyacrylamide, i.e. polymerized acrylamide. Acrylamide is a neurotoxin which remains unpolymerized (in small amounts) in these gels. This is why it's not food safe.
Gelatin, on the other hand, is a form of collagen that is obviously wholesome. Agar would make an acceptable vegan substitute for gelatin, should anyone be concerned about feeding critters to their spider.
I hope this helps. Again, great idea Scott.