I'm not scared of any of them really, but if you were to ask me what ones sounds the worst, I've read some things about S. calceatum being aggressive, but many owners say otherwise. The one that I've read the most actual "horror stories" from keepers about is H. lividum and some Haplopelmas in general. One of the worst bite reports I saw was P. subfusca and I have a female. Totally love her. I don't have a fear of them and much respect, so I guage what I get based on my fiancee. If she's scared of it, we pass. She's coming around. Used to be scared of Poecilotherias now she's not. I'm still getting nowhere with Haplopelma though. It's only fair that I share all the stories I see, good or bad, with her.
I'd say the least "scary" of all of the Ts I own is my female B. smithi. She's been nothing but a teddy bear her whole life.
I'd say the least "scary" of all of the Ts I own is my female B. smithi. She's been nothing but a teddy bear her whole life.