Thank you guys! With that info and after looking at pictures on BugGuide I think I can now tell the difference. We have a lot of both Agelenopsis and Rabidosa around our house. I like to know what I'm looking at.
Yes they are awesome. I like seeing them around. I see them often when I cut the grass. (and I swerve to avoid them of course!)
I let that one go, but I think sometime I'd like to keep a wolf.
I went out into the yard and teased a grass spider out of it's web for a look. They are actually quite different from wolf spiders when you see them in person. I feel kinda silly for getting them confused.