I am not angry that I was wrong. I am not angry that I was corrected. It was the way I was corrected. You can have as much information in your head as a thousand books but if you don't even try to put it into practice, how do you know if you're doing it correctly? I have no problem being told I had my ID wrong but yes, he was being condescending to a newer true spider hobbyists and that is where I get irritated. If someone IDs a spider the wrong way how about posting something useful to explain HOW to ID the species instead of telling them not to even try? How can you even thing that would be appropriate? We are all here on this board to learn but how would it appear to you if a senior hobbyist told you not to bother?Good Lord.
You guys know what this place is, right? The Internet's LARGEST, MOST DIVERSE source of information on the husbandry, breeding, and hobby of terrestrial invertebrate animals? You know what a place like that should do, right? Produce/broadcast CORRECT information when possible, and where there is error, CORRECT THE MISINFORMATION.
I can't believe I have to explain this.
@ Rusty - You can't use that language here. He wasn't being a "jerk", anyway... it sounds to me like you're a little bit pissed that you don't have the Death Spider From Hell that you thought, and he was only trying to help. His location says "Colombia" ... you know, South America? You're aware that the entire globe doesn't speak perfect American English right? Give people a break before you go off half-cocked. He was trying to correct obviously incorrect information that was flying around, and that's not really something you're allowed to take offense to on an INFORMATION board. Enjoy your spider... move on.
@ Leila - Basically the middle part of what I said to Rusty
@ Ricardo - Some people here are very delicate... you have to be "too nice" sometimes or else people get their feelings hurt. As you may be aware by now, this means that *I* cause "hurt feelings" on a fairly regular basis. Your tone and information was fine. You can't keep people from "trying" to do something... it's everyone's God-given right to throw out random ID's from Google Images!
Everyone needs to just chill the heck out. Stop nursing "hurt feelings" for a second and stop to think... maybe your input really ISN'T that helpful. I know a TON about bugs, and I wouldn't DREAM of chiming in on a thread like this. Why? Because my post would be nothing more than a half-baked guess based off a non-scientific comparison to some random, probably mis-identified anyway, photo off of the Internet somewhere. Input from someone who knows what they're talking about is generally much more helpful than that.
I'm not saying don't "try" ... I'm saying that if your'e going to try, you have to be ready to fail. And when you fail, be ready to be corrected. I know we're all supposed to be beautiful unique snowflakes, and everyone's opinion is supposed to be equally valid, but that's dead wrong, and that WILL NOT make AB the best place to find CORRECT information for years to come.
Thanks for listening... you may continue.
-MrI
Ricardo you didn't "hurt my feelings" as Mr. Internet here assumes but it did make me stop and think if I should just learn on my own about these spiders rather than getting information from someone with experience on this board. I had been lurking around on this board for a while although I started with the Theriphosidae boards. I'm still learning and truth be told there's a lot of information accurate and not on how to ID these spiders and I'm trying to separate the crap from the gold. There's really no way for me to find out if I'm doing this correctly until I try. Obviously I was going the wrong direction but I was irked from your response. I clearly stated in the beginning that my ID was in no way 100% sure and in fact if you read I was also asking questions when the first comment arose that I was incorrect. And also Mr. Internet once I again I'll state that I used a true spider catalog that led me to that image. It was not a random image found under the simple search of Phoneutria.
EDIT: Ricardo I pretty much just wanted to make it known to you that I was in no way "hurt" by your correction. Mr. Internet completely missed the point of my responses. I have no problem being corrected but I would have appreciated maybe something useful I could use so I could learn. I was obviously heading in the wrong direction but there is a lot of conflicting information even on this board. I made it clear in the beginning my ID was no where near 100%. How can I possibly learn if the only responses to these ID threads are "yep that's blah blah blah". Ok? How did you get that ID? What features are you looking at? I want to know that but I don't get anywhere if I don't start trying to put what I learn into practice. That was all I was trying to say though I admit I came off a bit sensitive I guess.
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