I have held them a few times but only because they have seen the open enclosure and thought “let’s go on an adventure!” So it wasn’t voluntary. And the threat posture wasn’t very threatening if that makes sense. More like startled at the worm touching them.Oh my you do have a moody one. You don't try handling it do you?
It's not out of the norm for any T to become defensive, no matter how docile a genus and species is overall.
I have plans on buying at least 5 or more T's. The ones I want are spicier in temperament. However everytime I plan on making purchases I have other financial obligations that pop up. Like just paying off my car last weekend.
Then there's the matter on space. Sure slings take up no room. I'm looking at the bigger picture like when they are adults with larger enclosures and where to keep them, it's an issue.
There is also the issue that I do not have a bath tub or confined area to rehouse Fiesty tarantulas.
Oh the dilemas
the issue with space is the reason I haven’t gotten more yet either. Really need to clean out my back room so I can set it all up