magicmed
Arachnobaron
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I lost one my first few weeks, a g. pulchripes sling I got with a few other T's. haven't lost anyone since then, here's to hoping that continues!
That is...awful. nobody taking them in...I have no words.When I first got into Ts, I lost my entire collection of several hundred specimens when we got snowed in and lost power for two weeks ): It was the worst experience... I called everyone I knew, trying to find someone to take them in... and no one would ):
Since I started collecting again about three years ago, I have had three deaths - A tiny P. lugardi sling who failed to thrive (didn't want to eat), my favourite P. choedatus girl got stuck in a molt, and just recently one of my 2i OBT slings that I bred was flipped over as if to molt (none of the others in the sac have flipped, the timing was super strange) and just never moved again.
Unfortunately, it can be impossible to explain the reason why we lose some Ts and that is the hardest part.
It was absolutely one of the wordt ways to "find out who your friends are." My best friend wanted to take them in, and her boyfriend said if she did, he would kill them all and kick her out. We both cried a lot as my collection dwindled. When I lost my first T that I had had since I was 12, I sort of became numb to the rest while it was happening. Afterwards, though, it hit me really hard and I have never forgotten any of their little faces.That is...awful. nobody taking them in...I have no words.
Feelings are so mean to us sometimes ):Almost three years into keeping, I lost two. An A.metallica sling that just didn't keep up like its sibling, and an E.sp.Red sling, exactly the same. Both didn't eat or web. I guess I got the unlucky ones. I felt stupid for losing these, like, maybe if I had done something different, I would've kept them alive. Reason says I was just unlucky, feeling says I didn't take good care enough.
I hope they are not still together. You don't want to know what I think about that kind of individual.My best friend wanted to take them in, and her boyfriend said if she did, he would kill them all and kick her out.
This is awful. That nearly made me cry. Really sad indeed. I would have taken them in any time if you lived near me. <3It was absolutely one of the wordt ways to "find out who your friends are." My best friend wanted to take them in, and her boyfriend said if she did, he would kill them all and kick her out. We both cried a lot as my collection dwindled. When I lost my first T that I had had since I was 12, I sort of became numb to the rest while it was happening. Afterwards, though, it hit me really hard and I have never forgotten any of their little faces.
Thank you <3This is awful. That nearly made me cry. Really sad indeed. I would have taken them in any time if you lived near me. <3
I consider myself very lucky i got the best friends near me who also have lots of animals including T`s. I know where to get help if I`m in trouble someday.