Hi, I'm Saf, and to state the blatantly obvious; I'm new around these parts. 
Firstly, many thanks to Debby for your great help in sorting out my registration teething problems. I've been waiting to join in for a few days, and happy that I now can.
Anyway, on to my topic at hand: Pokies.
Put simply, I adore them!
So, on then, to my potential problem.
I'm just getting back into the hobby, after a break of a few years.
My first T, was a really sweet little Avic Avic. She was somewhere between a late sling and a juvenile, but sadly, after six months of joy from this very quick, skittish but beautiful little spider, I awoke one morning to find her legs curled up underneath her. Sadly, she'd decided to check out, despite her living conditions being what can only be described as 'optimal'.
I thought for a long time, that it must've been something I'd done wrong, and I was devastated, that I might have inadvertently killed her.
I was so upset, that I did not get another spider.
I've since read, though, that this species in particular, are prone to unexpected deaths, apparently for 'no logical reason', and, I'm ready to try again.
Which brings me back to pokies.
As I said, I adore them. And; I must have one.
I've spent, literally a couple of months, researching everything I can find about them, so I'm very well aware of the potential 'trouble' they could cause me. Sure, a teleporting, eight-legged bundle of highly venomous aggression may not be everyone's idea of a good 'pet', but, it's a package I'm prepared to take my chances with.
I think of all the beauty I've experienced in my life, and, much of it would have never come my way, were it not for the taking of some pretty big risks.
And what could be more beautiful, than having your own pokie to come home and care for every day.
Now I know that many people would likely think it crazy, being relatively inexperienced in the hobby, to go for one of these, but, I fully understand the risks involved, and I still have to have one, lol.
I am by nature, a very careful and meticulous person, and I can assure you, that I will give this spider, the utmost respect. I certainly have no intention of trying to handle it, and will be exercising extreme caution around it, at all times.
I've spent countless evenings now, drooling over pictures of the little beauties, and it is high time I have the pleasure of gazing at the real 'live' thing.
So, this is the point, where I ask for your help.
Like I said, I've done some serious amounts of reading, trying to prepare myself for this, and I'm well aware of their 'fearsome reputation'.
However, what I keep on coming across, are contradictions.
For everyone who says that these are fearsome, aggressive beasts, there seems to be an interesting counter-balance of people, who say that these amazing creatures have been 'demonized', and that they've never had any problems with their Pokie, so long as they give it it's due respect.
As I said, I've had my heart set on getting a Pokie now, for a long old while; and it's pretty much going to happen, once I've spent the time creating a beautiful and realistic living environment for her (I want a female) using an arboreal Exo-Terra set up, that I will be customizing.
So, what I would love, from anyone who has the time to help me, is to hear of your own personal experiences, with your Pokies, and any advice you feel you can offer that will be of value to me, that you've learnt from your Pokie keeping experiences.
Any replies along such lines, will be greatly valued, and appreciated by me.
As I'm going to be doing this, regardless, please help me to be as prepared as I can be.
I have my heart set upon a P. Metallica, but I understand they are like gold dust, and it's unlikely I'll find one. So my next preference, would be a P. Regalis. Would they be good choices?
I've spent a lot of time, reading all the 'beginner' topics here, and everywhere else I can find, but what I really would love to hear, are you own personal experiences, both good, and bad; to help me make up my own mind.
There is a very very outside chance, that if everything I read from you is negative, I may consider an A. Versicolor instead. Unlikely, but possible.
My concern there, is any urticating hairs, as I live in a small studio apartment, and the tank will be in my living room/bedroom, so I don't want to risk nasty hairs in the air where I sleep. Rather risk the nasty bites.
Well, I must be off to sleep soon, but will check in and see if you have anything for me to read tomorrow after work.
My thanks and gratitude in advance, to anyone who kindly chips in with your experiences and advice.
Best regards,
Saf.
Firstly, many thanks to Debby for your great help in sorting out my registration teething problems. I've been waiting to join in for a few days, and happy that I now can.
Anyway, on to my topic at hand: Pokies.
Put simply, I adore them!
So, on then, to my potential problem.
I'm just getting back into the hobby, after a break of a few years.
My first T, was a really sweet little Avic Avic. She was somewhere between a late sling and a juvenile, but sadly, after six months of joy from this very quick, skittish but beautiful little spider, I awoke one morning to find her legs curled up underneath her. Sadly, she'd decided to check out, despite her living conditions being what can only be described as 'optimal'.
I thought for a long time, that it must've been something I'd done wrong, and I was devastated, that I might have inadvertently killed her.
I was so upset, that I did not get another spider.
I've since read, though, that this species in particular, are prone to unexpected deaths, apparently for 'no logical reason', and, I'm ready to try again.
Which brings me back to pokies.
As I said, I adore them. And; I must have one.
I've spent, literally a couple of months, researching everything I can find about them, so I'm very well aware of the potential 'trouble' they could cause me. Sure, a teleporting, eight-legged bundle of highly venomous aggression may not be everyone's idea of a good 'pet', but, it's a package I'm prepared to take my chances with.
I think of all the beauty I've experienced in my life, and, much of it would have never come my way, were it not for the taking of some pretty big risks.
And what could be more beautiful, than having your own pokie to come home and care for every day.
Now I know that many people would likely think it crazy, being relatively inexperienced in the hobby, to go for one of these, but, I fully understand the risks involved, and I still have to have one, lol.
I am by nature, a very careful and meticulous person, and I can assure you, that I will give this spider, the utmost respect. I certainly have no intention of trying to handle it, and will be exercising extreme caution around it, at all times.
I've spent countless evenings now, drooling over pictures of the little beauties, and it is high time I have the pleasure of gazing at the real 'live' thing.
So, this is the point, where I ask for your help.
Like I said, I've done some serious amounts of reading, trying to prepare myself for this, and I'm well aware of their 'fearsome reputation'.
However, what I keep on coming across, are contradictions.
For everyone who says that these are fearsome, aggressive beasts, there seems to be an interesting counter-balance of people, who say that these amazing creatures have been 'demonized', and that they've never had any problems with their Pokie, so long as they give it it's due respect.
As I said, I've had my heart set on getting a Pokie now, for a long old while; and it's pretty much going to happen, once I've spent the time creating a beautiful and realistic living environment for her (I want a female) using an arboreal Exo-Terra set up, that I will be customizing.
So, what I would love, from anyone who has the time to help me, is to hear of your own personal experiences, with your Pokies, and any advice you feel you can offer that will be of value to me, that you've learnt from your Pokie keeping experiences.
Any replies along such lines, will be greatly valued, and appreciated by me.
As I'm going to be doing this, regardless, please help me to be as prepared as I can be.
I have my heart set upon a P. Metallica, but I understand they are like gold dust, and it's unlikely I'll find one. So my next preference, would be a P. Regalis. Would they be good choices?
I've spent a lot of time, reading all the 'beginner' topics here, and everywhere else I can find, but what I really would love to hear, are you own personal experiences, both good, and bad; to help me make up my own mind.
There is a very very outside chance, that if everything I read from you is negative, I may consider an A. Versicolor instead. Unlikely, but possible.
My concern there, is any urticating hairs, as I live in a small studio apartment, and the tank will be in my living room/bedroom, so I don't want to risk nasty hairs in the air where I sleep. Rather risk the nasty bites.
Well, I must be off to sleep soon, but will check in and see if you have anything for me to read tomorrow after work.
My thanks and gratitude in advance, to anyone who kindly chips in with your experiences and advice.
Best regards,
Saf.