So you guys may or may not remember me, I had a bearded get sick and die on me, so I replaced him with a new baby. He/she is doing great so far, eats like crazy, nice and thick, and very attentive. But every time I try to touch or hold him, his sides and neck flair out, his neck turns black, and he tries to kill me.... what do I do? I really love this little guy, even though its pretty much a love/hate relationship, and hope that some day he'll get used to me. Do you guys have any suggestions? If so, that would be great