Hello, first let me introduce myself. My name is Sean I am 32 married with 2 children and I have a problem, im a arachniphobe. There I admitted it.:8o But im going to get over it with your help. Now my question, what is a good tarantula for a begginer? Of course I want a T. Blondi but realize that thats probably not the best choice for a first spider. But the North and Central America species ive seen just dont get me excited. So what outher choices do I have? My main criteria are bright colors and or interesting pattern, large size, it being an opportunistic burrower, not known for being a hair kicker or haveing very strong venom and doesnt hide constantly. I can deal with aggression to and extint I just dont want a T that is so fast that I cant get out of its way if it decides to attack. Also I have no plans of handling my T at all I just want to look at and observe it. Well there you have it, I know its a tall order but im sure you all can help. Again hello to all, and I appologize for the long post. Sean L.