This is my first post and I’m not even sure I’m doing it correctly… So bear with me… Found a garden spider between my kitchen screen and crank window after it was already freezing outside. Have been able to feed it flies so far, but none are coming out due to Very cloudy weather for quite some time. Read that mealworms would be good. now I am wondering if I have to crush the mealworms head and then try to put it in the web with tweezers?? Wish I’d known about having to crush heads before I bought, if that is the case. Thanks for any help!