DanBsTs
Dan (Not Even Cool) the Man
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- Oct 28, 2017
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Story of my life I just recently got green lit for my 7th Tarantula (though my wife made conditions that this would be my last for at least a full calander year). My wife has been resistant since the get go but she is a trooper and has been gracious thus far. So yes, I 100% feel your pain.so I have had my very first T a little over two weeks now . And you wouldn’t believe the begging I had to do to get this kritter . My wife is terrified of spiders completely so when I asked for one you can imagine the reaction . Little did I know she had been researching after I suggested it and agreed to come with me to look at them and I could have one if she felt comfy .
Fluffy the B. Hamorii is now on my fireplace and my wife is slowly getting used to it. BUT the bug has bitten me hard and I would love two more . And she will not have any of it . To the point we have argued about it and both gotten incredibly upset .
She doesn’t want more in the house , and doesn’t want to feel more uncomfortable in her own home . I’m annoyed as I just don’t understand and maybe miss read her signals when she’s shown interest in the T and asked to be a part of the cleaning out etc ( she even handled it in the store , not something that will happen at home though) so when I asked for another s*it hit the fan , and I’ve had to back down but am so so disappointed/ upset / frustrated .
Anyone else been in the same boat ? I can’t get more , or just bring one home as it just doesn’t work for us . I think I just wanted to vent and see if there are people in the same boat