I can't help you. I also really want both of these. I would be stuck on which to get myself. I want to sit here and say "if I HAD to pick one, it would be", but I can't. If I was stuck in your boat, I would be saving up until I could get both at once. Both of those are on my "must have" list. I even posted them in the must have thread.i really like them both. im not sure which to get. anybody got some advice?
i like that the g. pulchra is more docile. but i L-O-V-E love the colors on the b.boehmei. what should i get?
I agree with gvfarns here, however between the Brachypelma boehmei and the Grammostola pulchra, the boehmei will be more skittish. I'd get the G. pulchra, personally.Pulchra is going to be more expensive for an adult. Significantly so.
Though for a first T, I'd be more inclined to recommend B smithi or B emilia.