I should have read your post before i replied. You took the words right out of my mouth, anyway....Originally posted by kellygirl
I think you are referring to a 50/50 trade. This is not something that people 'automatically' do. You have to arrange it. The point is so the tarantula can be bred. If you have a female, then someone may wish to send you a male to breed with her. If you have a male, then you would be the one to send the spider. I think Todd Gearhart has the rules of 50/50 etiquette on his website if you're interested. If I were you, I wouldn't worry about this yet.