We have a male Tarantula red leg thats never been mated and it's slowly getting thinner and weaker by the day...it's still very active but keeps falling onto it's back and we feel really sorry for him...would it be better to put him out of his misery as we've been told that he's too far gone to mate now...if we had known about mating him before this happened we would have, but we we're told he was female. What would you do and if you agree that he should be put out of his misery, what is the kindest way to do it. All help appreciated. Thanks