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Do you make her rearrange her house and hide her prized possessions whenever you visit her? That she would even put her daughter in the middle and discuss it behind your back no less, is a bigger problem in my book than worrying about how to cater to her (or anybody else's) phobias. I'd get more, lots more, and put them in every room, every nook, every cranny. That's probably not helpful, I'm not suggesting you do that. Just how I feel about it. My MIL is in an urn on the shelf, I wouldn't dare dream of putting any spiders next to her, lol. But if she was still alive and had a problem with anything in our house, well that'd be her problem not mine.
Please do tellMy wife has a hobby that I find irritating