Advertisement I don't know if anyone has noticed this or not but the OP seems to have stepped out. I'm not sure if it's due to the repetitive nature of this thread, maybe she's taking some time to reflect on the sudden flood of information, maybe she got tired of feeling attacked or maybe something else. Whatever the case, she seems to have left folks to their own devices. I think I'd wait to see what has transpired on her end before posting more advice/ideas/opinions. Maybe there has been a positive outcome to all of this, maybe not, but the OP has been conspicuously absent now for a couple pages. I'd like to see her response before dragging this out and muddying the waters further.