I have two tarantulas: curly hair(m) named Mochi and a stripped knee Costa Rican(F) named Charlotte. I’ve had them both for two years. Charlotte barley eats anymore and has had a bald spot on her but for the longest time. They have a 20 gallon tank both and it’s filled a lot with dirt, leaves, and two hides each. Charlotte always comes out and sits at the glass until I pick her up and just lay with her on my chest as I’m on my phone. As soon as I take her off of me she try’s to climb back onto me all the time. I know they don’t like being handled but she’s constantly wanting me to handle her at least that’s how I interpret it. Whenever I put her back in her cage she try’s to climb out of it for me to pick her up again(so cute). She is also NEVER in the stress pose. On the other hand mochi likes to explore the tank but he never lets me hold him and so I dont. I just want to make sure I’m not doing anything wrong. Mochi has molted 4-5 times since I’ve had him and Charlotte none.