@The wolf It has usually been calm when I've done some maintenance, but I haven't tried to handle it or anything. I tong fed it at first (I only had mealworms) and sometimes it went fine, sometimes it got spooked and didn't eat. Now it eats from a dish.
@Marika that is so weird,mine is always wandering around,more than once I've tried putting my hand in front of her and she's happily walked right on,obviously it's not a regular thing because even though she shows no signs of stress I wouldn't want to upset her
On the feeding front I'm essentially in the same situation and she has similar reactions