Just paired my schioedtei in fact...my pairing went much differently. My female came out, sat for a few minutes, the male tapped and she was super receptive....male got away easily. My understanding is that your pairing was more the norm.
@Nightstalker47 its only been 2 weeks, but she already is locked in her burrow and is starting to web herself in a bit...which is significant, as my female rarely webs and never really webs in this manner. Would be a really nice sac to be able to hatch out....for both of us.