@cold blood I am in the same boat. I have been looking for a mature male for about a year. So @Eren, you have some options, cold blood is also in the states and has a fantastic rep for trades and things like that. I would consider it and get some slings back.
It would be a shame to let the male waste away IMO.
@Drea@cold blood I’ll let you folks know once I get a (non-shredded) molt. The only reason I’m hesitant to judge by the horn is that I saw its suspect male sack mate and it had NO horn at all, as well as its mother which had a somewhat smaller horn. If it does turn out male, I’d be open to working something out with anyone interested.