Urzeitmensch
Arachnosquire
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- Feb 23, 2019
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The reaction of others to this hobby tells a lot about the human mind and the importance people put on socialy established behaviour. I am a rational man but still would be automatically taken aback if people show uncommon behaviour (e.g. wearing animal costumes in public) even if I later reflect on it being without harm to anyone.
There is also the human tendency to judge or - for some -even hate things that are different from what they know and understand despite them having no effect on their lives. Why do some hate homosexual people? Others sexual orientation affects their life in no way whatsoever. Still they hate without any reason.
What makes T-keeping especially difficult to accept is a combination of its rarity, the disgust most people have regarding spiders and a hazy knowledge that Ts are venomous. Combine this with the above mentioned human behavior and you have a recipe for rejection.
This should not discourage anyone, though. Most people I tell about my hobby are either confused but ultimately indifferent or have the classical irrational it-is-gross thing. As I generally don't give a spiders poop about others opinions on how I spent my free time, this is ok for me.
I do not bother people I know won't care or be uncomfortable with the hobby, no more than I would force a monologe about my passion for World if Warships on them.
Like with every hobby I only talk about it if I think my conversation partner is interested or if their is a compelling reason to. And I won't talk about it if it only brings disadvantages.
There is also the human tendency to judge or - for some -even hate things that are different from what they know and understand despite them having no effect on their lives. Why do some hate homosexual people? Others sexual orientation affects their life in no way whatsoever. Still they hate without any reason.
What makes T-keeping especially difficult to accept is a combination of its rarity, the disgust most people have regarding spiders and a hazy knowledge that Ts are venomous. Combine this with the above mentioned human behavior and you have a recipe for rejection.
This should not discourage anyone, though. Most people I tell about my hobby are either confused but ultimately indifferent or have the classical irrational it-is-gross thing. As I generally don't give a spiders poop about others opinions on how I spent my free time, this is ok for me.
I do not bother people I know won't care or be uncomfortable with the hobby, no more than I would force a monologe about my passion for World if Warships on them.
Like with every hobby I only talk about it if I think my conversation partner is interested or if their is a compelling reason to. And I won't talk about it if it only brings disadvantages.
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