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I went to bed last night crying hysterically (and when Jodi crys, Jodi crys LOUDLY!!!). I thought I killed my spider. Not just any, but one of my favorites.
I was trying to teach myself how to sex ventrally. I have a spider that I'm not sure of the sex and I wanted to know if it was a he or she. It is a RCF G. rosea. So, I took out all my Grammys, one at a time, and held them in the cupped position while studying their undersides with a jeweler's loupe. I know the sex of most of them, from the molts or from how I bought them, so I thought by studing the ones I know are male vs. female, I would learn my lesson.
Well, I learned my lesson indeed. One of my mature girlies didn't want to be cupped. But I was determined. I knew she was a she and I wanted to study she parts. I was in the bathroom (best light in the home) and she bolted from my hand, I let her run on me for a bit but she jumped from me to the bathroom sink--not a far jump at all, but still a jump. I was upset, but she seemed fine. I let her walk on me a bit more before putting her back, to make sure she was really ok. About ten minutes later I checked on her. She wasn't moving. I picked her up, she was completely limp. I flipped her over, wiggled her limp legs--no reaction. She was dead. I cryed--LOUDLY. I flipped her over again, put a drop of water by her fangs, to see if maybe she was just dehydrated from running, but nothing. Limp, dead for sure, I thought. I gentley layed her back in her enclosure, figuring I would just handle her disposal in the morning. WaaWaaWaa.
I woke up early, my first thoughts were of how I could have done this to such a magnificant creature. I was sick to my stomach. Usually, I read the spider's signs and if they aren't really calm, I won't handle. I ignored the signs and I wasn't careful with her. I was on a mission, I wanted to look at her "privates". Anyway I got out of bed, went straight to her and there she was--ALIVE! She is moving around. She responds to my touch. Now she is not being really active, but she is definitely not dead. I know that she is not out of the woods, I will not rest easy until at least a week passes. But, what's up??? Was she really sick and recovered over night or was she playing dead/feigning death?
I was trying to teach myself how to sex ventrally. I have a spider that I'm not sure of the sex and I wanted to know if it was a he or she. It is a RCF G. rosea. So, I took out all my Grammys, one at a time, and held them in the cupped position while studying their undersides with a jeweler's loupe. I know the sex of most of them, from the molts or from how I bought them, so I thought by studing the ones I know are male vs. female, I would learn my lesson.
Well, I learned my lesson indeed. One of my mature girlies didn't want to be cupped. But I was determined. I knew she was a she and I wanted to study she parts. I was in the bathroom (best light in the home) and she bolted from my hand, I let her run on me for a bit but she jumped from me to the bathroom sink--not a far jump at all, but still a jump. I was upset, but she seemed fine. I let her walk on me a bit more before putting her back, to make sure she was really ok. About ten minutes later I checked on her. She wasn't moving. I picked her up, she was completely limp. I flipped her over, wiggled her limp legs--no reaction. She was dead. I cryed--LOUDLY. I flipped her over again, put a drop of water by her fangs, to see if maybe she was just dehydrated from running, but nothing. Limp, dead for sure, I thought. I gentley layed her back in her enclosure, figuring I would just handle her disposal in the morning. WaaWaaWaa.
I woke up early, my first thoughts were of how I could have done this to such a magnificant creature. I was sick to my stomach. Usually, I read the spider's signs and if they aren't really calm, I won't handle. I ignored the signs and I wasn't careful with her. I was on a mission, I wanted to look at her "privates". Anyway I got out of bed, went straight to her and there she was--ALIVE! She is moving around. She responds to my touch. Now she is not being really active, but she is definitely not dead. I know that she is not out of the woods, I will not rest easy until at least a week passes. But, what's up??? Was she really sick and recovered over night or was she playing dead/feigning death?