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- Dec 22, 2010
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Love your pics, awesome spiders. And so much luck with their personalities, they all seem chilled and relaxed.
This makes me wonder if its because you handle them and interact with them or if they 'came out of the factory' that way? Do you think spiders can get used to your contact?
A lot of people here are quick to scream NO! but I'm not so sure. They seem to have capacity for learning. Maybe they learn to accept you?
I would have to agree that I am always confident and relaxed (as much as I can be) whenever dealing with my Ts, especially the tempermental ones. If your nervous, there's more of a chance for something to go wrong, the T bolts and spooks you (not you in particular ), the container falls over, the T runs out and then you and your Ts get kicked out of the house.like any animal, I think they know when you are afraid or stressed out. if you're relaxed and confident and able to kind of see things from the spider's POV, its gonna seem that you have a whole bunch of calm spiders. when really they just dont see you as a threat, because you're basically a tree. or some other surface..that is not scary, or scared of them.
ive seen a couple folks be that kind of relaxed, and can handle all sorts of species without any sort of defensive behavior on their part. those kind of people are entirely too rare, and I am not one of them, which is why i don't put Poecis and OBTs on my hand. But, if I was, I would.
I don't wanna burst your bubble or anything, but I'm unfortunately one of those people who believe they are not able to get "used" to handling. Whenever I handle my Ts, I never go straight in. That's to say, if my B smithi kicks hairs, I'll leave him for another day because I don't want to risk him being even MORE aggitated once I have him in my hand. I enjoy the contact. If the tarantula is 'tense' (doesn't wanna put its feet down, abdomen raised, chelicerae spread, etc.), I put it back into the enclosure because it just feels wrong keeping it in such a nervous state. With the OBT, he was obviously not stressed at all since he felt comfortable enough to groom himself. When I was taking him out initially, he didn't throw up any threat postures or sprint around. If he had, I would've surely let him be. I do have my limits though! I had my H lividum run up my arm so I never took her back out again lol. Ts can be very unpredictable and I take a chance everytime I handle one.
TL;DR
When you're calm, they're calm (sometimes). Don't handle Ts when they're showing defensive signs. &Always be prepared for the worst.