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It's just a vague thoughts right now, but something to consider and something I feel worthwhile enough to bring to the attention of @Arachnopets and @MrDeranged .
Ratings are nice and can be of value, but for the most part are glorified Facebook 'like' clicks. (And cliques).
But now and then, buried under the rubble and rabble there comes up a valuable post that deserves a rating that sets itself apart. Relevant, material, of significant use, well thought out, stays strictly within the specific purpose of the thread while also being a reference item: Take note here! This thread has a reference entry worth referring to!
It's unfortunate that quality ratings are all grouped together with the trash, the circle voting, the momentary amusement posts, and the posts that just catch one's fancy at that immediate moment.
Maybe a special rating could evolve and be applied to AB?
To cite and exemplify, a post I stumbled on this AM:
Ratings are nice and can be of value, but for the most part are glorified Facebook 'like' clicks. (And cliques).
But now and then, buried under the rubble and rabble there comes up a valuable post that deserves a rating that sets itself apart. Relevant, material, of significant use, well thought out, stays strictly within the specific purpose of the thread while also being a reference item: Take note here! This thread has a reference entry worth referring to!
It's unfortunate that quality ratings are all grouped together with the trash, the circle voting, the momentary amusement posts, and the posts that just catch one's fancy at that immediate moment.
Maybe a special rating could evolve and be applied to AB?
To cite and exemplify, a post I stumbled on this AM:
Yeah... that's pretty much the opposite of the advice @Smokehound714 and I gave you yesterday about being patient, letting him set the tone by courting her, giving them space and not forcing them together.
They are not horny teenagers that are going to start boinking the second you get 'em face to face in a room. (Actually, most horny teenagers won't even do that!) Nor are they porn stars that will have sex on cue.
They need time and space to decide whether they are in the mood or not. If the male is in the mood, he will attempt to court the female by tapping. If he is not engaging in courtship behavior, he is not interested. Likewise, she needs to be receptive - and the one most qualified to determine whether she is receptive or not is the male spider, while he is attempting to court her. If they are not "in the mood" they will not mate - and you can't force them to do so.
By "scooting" them you stressed them out and made her identify him as a threat rather than a potential mate - and she reacted accordingly.
I really hope he survives the bite. I don't know how effective wolf spider venom is against other wolf spiders - and it could have been a dry bite, anyway - but at this point you should separate them, give her time to calm down (and him time to recover) and then IF he survives, re-read the suggestions from yesterday, try again, and take it slow!!!